There may be talk of sex... be warned!

BestAudioCodes.com The First Time… Now, If you've read Cruisin'... you might be sitting there expecting me to recount my 'first time' in a similar manner...(if you didn’t read Cruisin’… shame on you! – so, go on and take a gander… then come back). My first time… Nope, not gonna do it! Well, not today... Unless you beg… But it'll have to be good... Mind you my first time wasn't all that good and it didn’t last very long so it would be a short post, somewhere along the lines of: Imagine dear reader, Yours truly, laying spread eagle on his bed (a twin bed with a blue comforter, in a blue room – kinda surprising that it didn’t turn me off blue altogether) … and then 'He came...' Oh.. and he had his damn elbow on my hair the whole time! Fortunately it was over fast, he fell on his back and I was able to free my hair before you can say ‘supercalifragilisticsexpealidocious’… hell in the time it takes to say that he could have gone twice! … that’s all folks… Ok.. so I guess I did recount it.. …But then who's first time is spectacular?... That is, unless you have a good teacher... this brings me closer to what was really on my mind today. Actually, there are all kinds of firsts of the intimate nature. How does each one come about? How does one learn? Is your partner your Teacher? My friend, la belle et douce Tisha, started an "interesting" topic the other day on her wonderful and "stimulating" blog, Serenity Quest – where the comment section is quite the experience! Are you vocal? Do you tell your partner what you want? Do you teach them what makes you purrrrrrrrrrrrrr or for the gentleman reader, what makes you grrrrrrrrrrrrrowl? (I do love a man who grrrrrrrrowls). We found that we were a very ‘vocal’ group, and shared the philosophy that you might get what you want if you’re quiet, but it just might take a lot more time than you’d like or OH NO! you might not get it at all! This said, some discovery is very good… your partner might come to you with tricks of his or her own and they may just find new ways to make your eyes roll back towards the back of your head. There is such a thing as blurting out too much too soon dear reader, if you have doubts about this scroll back up and read the description of my first time.. go on.. I’ll wait.. SUPERCALIFRAGILISTICSEXPEALIDOCIOUS.. Welcome back! So, a satisfactory relationship is one where both partners (well, unless you have an inkling to add a third party, but that's an entirely different post) share and communicate. Yes dear reader, it seems in all, even the basest of animal instincts, communication is the key. Each time becomes an opportunity to let our partner know what we enjoy, either by sharing something new, or by reinforcing a favourite little trick with some encouragement of the type your partner prefers. Some species indicate readiness with a scent, others a dance,... wait... perfume, dancing... well, well.... I’m a member of the animal kingdom… purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Making contact, sustaining the other’s attention, and I am not solely referring to new conquests. It takes some stoking (and stroking) to keep that fire, that variety… so we may continue new firsts… even with a partner we’ve been with for a long time. (Yes Clay, it’s possible… really!) Firsts. there are so many of them… The first touch; be it a hand on the shoulder, the side of your knee touching the outside of their thigh as they sit next to you, or the back of your hand gently grazing an arm as you get up from the table… and 40 000 volts shoot through your body. Every nerve ending tingling, your breath quickening… The first kiss… even there, we find categories! I have a penchant and weakness for the deep, wet, soul searching, eyes open, dip me and make my toes curl kind of kiss… the one where he first takes your face in his hands.. oh my.. and then they move down to the small of your back, arms pulling you in close… Do you remember the first time you kissed that person you’d been yearning for, hunting, flirting with, wooing…? Or have you yet to kiss them, and are spending time daydreaming of what that would or will be like? The first night you spend with that person, waking in the middle of the night to their touch… and passion takes over. I could do a list of thirteen as it is Thursday. but you’ll have to excuse me... I need to go sit in the snow for a few minutes... and a lot longer than it takes to say… SUPERCALIFRAGILISTICSEXPEALIDOCIOUS! Love you all more than my luggage! Hugs, smooches and gropes! And rubs… Disclaimer: this post does not in any way contribute to global warming.